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Emotions: The Language of the Soul

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Emotions are the soul’s way of speaking to you. They are universal and essential to your journey in this life, a core part of your purpose. Understanding your emotions—and knowing how and why you feel—opens the door to both self-mastery and life-mastery. Let’s look at the significance of emotions through the lens of The Sage’s Template™.

Emotions as Energy in Motion Your emotions are pure energy, transforming into feelings within the body. They connect you both to the physical experience of this life and to the boundless energy from which you came. Through your emotions, you reveal the truth of who you are.

Imagine your soul as a musical note—Note C—existing within a harmonious chord of infinite notes. When you are in tune, you flow effortlessly within the unity of the chord without an identity. But when Note C drifts out of tune, it stands apart, drawing attention to itself. In that moment, it seems separate from the whole, but this separation is an illusion. The note was always part of the chord. Similarly, fear-based emotions are the “out of tune” experiences in your life—temporary disruptions that allow you to experience yourself as distinct. Yet, these disruptions serve a higher purpose: they help you remember who you truly are and reconnect with the harmony of the whole knowing the integral part of that whole that you are.

 

The Purpose of Fear-Based Emotions

Fear is the driving force behind every disruption, a teacher guiding you back into alignment with your Soulful Self—or True Self.. The fear you experience is not accidental; it was placed upon you in this life with purpose. You are here to heal those fears and transcend the challenges they bring. Without fear, there would be no reason for this physical journey. Through free will, you choose how much of these fears you will expose and heal.

Your challenges—whether they appear as limiting beliefs, emotional patterns, or judgments—are rooted in these learned fears. Over time, you may have accepted these fears as truth, unknowingly allowing them to shape your life and block your joy. But beneath the fear lies your true essence: love.

 

Returning to Love: The Truth of Who You Are

In truth, you are love. You were created from the energy of love/freedom, and it is your natural state. Fear is the temporary imbalance that pulls you “out of tune.” As you move through life, you are asked to recognize fear for what it is—an illusion—and release it to return to the truth of love.

All emotions fall into two categories: love-based and fear-based. Love-based emotions—such as joy, acceptance, peace, and freedom—reflect your alignment with your Soulful Self. Fear-based emotions—such as anger, guilt, shame, and abandonment—signal disconnection and limitation. Learning to discern between these emotions helps you see whether you are standing in truth or illusion.

 

Healing Through Awareness of Emotions

The first step to healing is awareness. If you know whether you are comfortable or uncomfortable inside, you have a starting point. Comfort signals that you are experiencing love-based emotions. Discomfort reveals the presence of fear-based emotions, pointing to areas that are ready for healing if you choose to engage them.

Anger, for example, is a secondary emotion. It arises when a primary fear-based emotion, such as hurt or rejection, is triggered by a perceived threat. Anger gives you the energy to respond or defend your Self, but it also obscures the underlying emotion that needs attention. By identifying the primary emotion beneath your anger, you begin the process of healing.

 

Using Emotions as a Guide to Freedom

Your emotions are not obstacles; they are signposts. Each time you feel a fear-based emotion, it is an opportunity to uncover an old belief that no longer serves you. For example, if you frequently feel anger toward your partner, you may discover that beneath the anger lies loneliness. That loneliness may stem from a deeper fear of being unworthy of love—a fear you have carried throughout your life. Once you recognize this pattern, you can express your true feelings, opening space for deeper connection and healing with your Self and your partner.

Love-based emotions, on the other hand, feel expansive and free. However, for some, these emotions can feel unfamiliar or even uncomfortable. If expressing love makes you uneasy, it may be a sign that fears around intimacy or vulnerability are surfacing. This discomfort does not mean love itself is uncomfortable; it means that old fears are being stirred as you step into deeper emotional truth.

 

The Dance Between Love and Fear

It is common to seek external validation for feelings of love, asking, “Is this love? Am I feeling what I should?” This search for clarity reflects a fear of trusting your inner experience. But love is not something to be defined by the mind; it is something to be felt and known within the heart.

If you find yourself avoiding certain emotions—whether due to fear of intimacy, anger, or pain—it is an invitation to explore those emotions and heal the fears beneath them. True emotional mastery involves embracing the full spectrum of emotions, knowing that each one serves a purpose in your journey.

 

Conclusion: Emotions as the Key to Mastery

Your emotions are essential to both self-mastery and life-mastery. They are not obstacles to overcome but doorways to greater awareness and freedom. Fear-based emotions highlight where healing is needed, while love-based emotions reveal the truth of who you are.

By using The Sage’s Template™, you can deepen your awareness of your emotional landscape and begin to dismantle the old beliefs that limit you. As you align more fully with love, your life becomes an expression of freedom, authenticity, and joy.

You are not separate from the whole; you are a unique note within the infinite chord of life. When fear throws you out of tune, it is not a mistake—it is an opportunity to remember your place in the harmony. Embrace your emotions, trust their wisdom, and allow them to guide you back to the truth of who you are: pure love.

In the end, emotions are not something to be feared or controlled. They are the language of your soul, offering insight and guidance as you move through this life. Feel them fully, honor their purpose, and allow them to bring you back into tune with the chord of the infinite.

 

Thank you for reading and sharing this journey with me! If you’re looking to connect with like-minded individuals and share meaningful conversations, I invite you to join my community, “The Sage’s Circle”, on Facebook. Let’s build a space for connection, wisdom, and growth—be part of the conversation today!

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